Good morning my friend.
Today’s wisdom from Wisdom Cottage is about being an empath, and how to harness Your Masterful Creative Power
Whilst being in a world of “Non-empaths”
Over the years in my work as a healer, guide, and way shower for people, I have learnt many interesting and useful things.
My “work” is not so much what I do, more to say, “it is who I AM”. You are probably the same.
Needless to say in my line of work, my “empathness” is pretty much off the scale.
I too have to live barefoot on the lands as much as I can, limit my time around computers, people, busy shops etc.
But that’s not what I want to talk with you about today.
I have concluded over my many years working with people from all walks of life, something a lot of empaths will likely disagree with;
I have discovered that ;
We are ALL empaths!
Yes that’s right.
We are ALL empaths, in fact, ... I’ve never met anyone who isn’t an empath!
Now some empaths will be “triggered” by me saying that and that is fine.
Some empaths feel “special “ being an empath, so won’t like the idea of it being “normal”.
But it actually is “normal” as God (use your own name for God) created it.
Now before you protest,
Yes, I have met many people who have become unrooted from the earth,
their heart and their Soul,
and have consequently built up a very thick “disconnected even rhinoceros “skin.
So that they practically cannot feel, or even experience their innate sensitivity.
These people can often seem uncaring, cold, heartless, and head and logic oriented etc.
Yes, they will also behave this way too.
And yes it can be very difficult to be around these people I agree.
But!
When I sit down with these types of people, every single one tells me of their deeper feelings, things that “they have always known” or having been mistreated or unloved at childhood.
Or they have never had, or had very little access to nature, or indeed nurture.
Everyone “feels deeply” at a level, just many have tuned out from this part of themself.
Or have never been taught to use it.
I believe that God (yes, I believe in God, not just a “universe”) made every sentient being “an empath” is my conclusion.
So what of the insanity of this world ?
My answer?
Is the increasing disconnection of individuals from who they really are.
Their “soul self”, the earth, their heart, their intuition, their inner voice and also, disconnection from the Creator /something bigger than themselves.
More time on computers, wearing plastic soled shoes, less time barefoot on the land or even touching a tree or plant each day, makes a person less and less sensitive to the heart and soul that they are.
The result being logic based, and literally “heartless” living.
And yes these people are not fun to be around.
So what to do?
First, please do your best to have compassion for those who seem insensitive to others (yes it seems so hard I know, I really know, ) we can try and remember that the light within them is calling them to us.
That these seeming “insensitives ” are often the most desperate inside.
Every person has a story, and it is often the most mean and cold people who are the most sensitive and hurting, and the only way they know is to be mean and cruel and “heartless”.
They long to love, but they don’t know how to access that part of themselves.
I have learnt that if I remind myself of this, then I will have greater compassion for the “heartless” ones because every person has a heart, but many have not been raised to even know it exists.
If I condemn them, surely I am then too not walking my talk of love and compassion.
I think the term “empath” is a good thing, however it has also given rise to a separateness.
“I’m an empath, you’re not scenario”.
In the same way, the rise of the divine feminine seems to be creating in some ways more of a split from the divine masculine.
The masculine is being seen as the “enemy”. Which is not true at all.
We are seeing this play out a lot on the world stage at the moment.
I see quite a lot of ego response around the whole empath thing which is a pity.
We are all connected, yes even to the “horrible” person who is tearing up the land.
Ok, so how can we use our empath power for good?
The best solution?
Read this carefully and slowly, so as to take it all in;
> Hold a definite unwavering loving thought of the person or the situation AS WE desire it to be.
such as sincerely feeling them as kind, caring, earthed, compassionate, loving and most of all happy.
** Any thought that you are having of a person or situation other than that, (in that moment) you are colluding energetically with, and actually contributing to their brokenness. **
*Yes really,
if you are focusing on the existence of something you “don’t like” about a person or situation...
in that moment you are energetically reinforcing that vibration in them.
Please re read that. *
Everything is energy and your thoughts are energy or vibration or frequency. Your thoughts are shaping your current reality. As you think these unwanted thoughts, they are literally becoming real in your reality, and that’s includes your thoughts about people as strange as it may sound.
So stop thinking thoughts about what you are seeing with your physical senses.
You as an empath are in a powerful position to help!
You are very aware of your imagination and can use it as a “force for good” in a very conscious, loving and beneficial way.
Your imagination is your access to your Soul/your subconscious/ divine mind whatever name you give it.
So when you encounter a situation or person that you wish to see as happy and carefree,
Stop!
Take a deep breath. If you can, put your barefeet on the earth, or put your hand on a tree, and remind yourself that you are a powerful being having a human experience.
Remember your true identity.
You are a powerful creative being made in the image and likeness of God.
And instead make a firm choice.
Make a choice to “bend reality”.
To exercise the power of your imagination (subconscious/soul/God consciousness)
Make a choice to refuse to “see” anything other than the loveliness you desire to see.
I choose to “see” with my inner vision, only that which I desire to see, (what is lovely)
and then I put my total belief in its reality even if it not what I’m seeing or experiencing with my physical senses.
I then condense the feeling of what i desire to see in a few little words such as, yes, it is done...or thank you, or hooray, or isn't it wonderful.
I normally have to do it everyday for a few days or more.
I ask myself, What does it feel like now that it (my desired result ) is true?
It is a good test to see if am really successfully feeling it.
Focus your internal mental agreement on the feeling of the wish/desire fulfilled
I then accept, and wholeheartedly believe that this is already true ....
Jesus said, "when you pray believe. that you have already received it. and you shall have it. Notice He said, that you already have received it.
not believe that it will come soon, no He said that you already have it.
Not believe that it will come.
No, belief that you already have it.
If you are imagining lovingly on behalf of another for example for someone who has a broken leg. You simply see them (in your inner vision) as happily already riding their bike again, leg, long since healed.
And you believe it with everything that you have. Not half heartedly hoping as this will not bring you desired result you wish for.
You must whole heartedly believe to the core of your being that your friend’s leg is now already healed and that they are happily riding their bike again. If you close your eyes and imagine a little scene playing out that will help your subconscious catch hold of it.
as there is only the present moment, all things only exist now.
So it’s not wishing, it is deciding that this is already true.
Invariably once you truly hand on heart can feel it your desire fulfilled, and believe it joyfully with every fibre of your being, it comes to pass fairly quickly in a shape or form, which you probably couldn’t even imagine.
and you can be of “good cheer” knowing that in those times that you are “working as a force for good” on this planet.
You don’t need to tell anyone what you’re doing or look for praise.
My friend, will you join me now in refusing to “see” that which you don’t like?
which yes, may be loudly in front of you?
Will you join me now in only holding lovely thoughts about the thing you don’t like?
Will you exercise your power of imagination and belief and expectation with me and “only see, that which is lovely”, even though with your physical eyes you may be “seeing” something entirely different? And quite unlovely.
Will you be brave and courageous and willing to do this?
I believe we are all empaths, and our power of “feeling” is to be used as a tool of transformation into “seeing" that which we desire to see.
With our inner eyes, we choose to put our unwavering gaze on the desired outcome instead of the current unloveliness.
Totally believing that by our expecting it, it will become so.
This is the act of bending reality, similar to creating your reality but different.
Only then will we be be the change we wish to see in the world.
Try it whole heartedly and you will see that it works.
Total belief of feeling is the key to your success in using the power of your imagination
P.P.S If you want powerful help with this you can purchase my healing recording “See what is lovely” here.
Have a lovely day my friend. I hold loving thoughts of you only believing in a wonderful outcome for you.
With love Julie from Wise Woman’s Cottage
